Bit more seriously - I had a little mini crisis when I stopped working full time. It took a while to figure out what I was 'supposed' to do. Sometimes more is less.
And the activites and things are really for my benefit - yes I have to make it work for DS too, or it won't work. A trip to the shops rates as a big adventure for my boy...

he's been "playing" going shopping for the past 2 hours. I'm not too sure where the laundry is (he 'delivered' it all somewhere) or what's in his shopping bag (looks like it's getting heavy), but we're having a 'yes' day as mummy is tired and DD doesn't want to sleep.