Okay, need to know what others think please, I over analyse so much I don't know what to think any more!!
DH wakes around 6am, before DS and myself. He reads the papers for about an hour, then goes for a walk for one hour just when DS is waking up. Once he's back he has minimal interaction with DS before he heads to work. He usually catches the bus to work unless he's running late (which is often) so we drive him. So he's at work from about 9am or later, which means he has to stay till about 6pm.
I get really annoyed that he "wastes" time in the morning reading the papers etc when DS is sleeping and then works late which means he mostly missed feeding DS dinner
(this and bathing DS are his 'jobs') and sees him for a short time each evening.
So - am I being unreasonable in wanting DH to go to work earlier (since he's awake anyway) rather than reading papers and getting to work late? I'd like him to be home earlier to spend time with us and I feel like he doesn't prioritise us over work, reading papers etc... I don't have much 'me' time since DS came along but I feel that DH still fits his in, at the expense of family time...
Any thoughts appreciated, even if you think I'm unreasonable
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