I agree with everyone else! My golden rules are "do whatever works for you" "pick your battles" and "if it doesn't bother you don't change it" DD1 (4.5now) always went to sleep on me never in her bed it worked fine and then I got sick of it as DD2 came along so I expected a huge fight everynight but she was great. If it works for both of you then by all means do it. And especially if he's Stijl having such a big day sleep he sounds like he's getting enough sleep.