Thanks everyone

Our plan for when the baby arrives is my mum will take DD while DP is with me then when im settling in with the baby he will collect DD and take over from there. My mum is babysitting here so if its an all night thing its not really a sleep over and that was my mums choice. I have wonderful family and friends but no one who has asked or seemed too keen to have her. Maybe if i was asked i would maybe feel more inclined to.

She has slept through the night since about 6 weeks, there were a few rough nights with teething and illness but shes generally good. But i just worry if she woke up and i wasnt there what would she be like so thats stopped me also.