All people are different. I know plenty of mums who love differently to me. Not in a bad way. Just differently. I know DH prioritises me because he says I prioritise him and the kids and if he didn't no one would... Lol. But that doesn't mean the kids aren't important to him but I'm the one who worries about if they have enough clothes for the season, when their next dentist appt is etc. but he'll happily take them clothes shopping or to their dentist appt. I'm just the one that does all the stressing.