I wonder why it's so surprising that some babies are night-owls when so many adults are too! One of my DSs started used to like going to bed late as a young baby, and the other was an early to bed baby. Now that they are school/kindy they are both usually so exhausted at night that they go down easily by about 7:30pm. I really have found that life is much easier when you work with your child's natural patterns - some babies will sleep more than others etc. Otherwise it can just turn into a battle and no-one wins.

It sounds like you are easy going about it but feeling pressured. I think you are doing a great job - trust yourself hun. You know best.