If they get gender stereotypes from parents, we fail.

We both take out the garbage.
We both do the washing.
We both cook, but not the same meals - we have our specialities.
We both drive the car.
We both change nappies.
Other half generally has baths with the little one, I rarely do - but then I was HUGE and once I was in I couldn't get out
I wear brown and green. Partner wears purple and pink.
I have short hair, partner has long hair.
I do gardening and painting. Partner does heavier stuff like hauling iron around.

DD#1 doesn't really play with toys other than making beds, but DD#2 plays with any and everything. She likes cars and trains. She also likes having dinner. The dolls get used to play out our family. Actually what DD#2 has been doing the most of lately is making books for the baby to read and generally burying the poor thing in toys. Is that gender specific?