I am cruel to my girls and I will continue to be.

[ashie]

I dress DS1 and DS2 the same! But hard finding different outfits when they both wear the same size! (DS1 and 2 both in sz 10 shoes, size 5 tops, size 4 bottoms and size 5 pj's) dh first was like oh no, but now knows they like being dressed the same or similar, but we do get those comments or asked if their twins often.

[Liviam]

I'm a big disliker of dressing kids the same. Can't pinpoint why exactly but it just doesn't sit right with me.

[Trillian]

I'm a big disliker of dressing kids the same.

Me too. BUT beating your kids with a stick is cruel, dressing them the same is not. That's a pretty dumb thing to say to you. I can't believe some of the things people think are OK to comment on.

[~clover~]

Meh, I've done it. Back when the girls were little they had a couple things the same. Often if one wore something the other would ASK to wear it too. Just because they liked that item.

Even now they both have a dress the same. They're 10 & almost 7. If they choose to wear them on the same day, I wouldn't care! They are at an age now where its THEIR choice. They were both with me when I bought the dresses & were both happy, even though DD1 hates DD2 copying her.

I also used to buy the same outfit, but in different colours. & I still do that on occasion. Again, sometimes they just choose to wear the same thing. And even as young as 2, they can make that choice!

[chippyrabbit]

I used to love when my cousin and i dressed the same when we were younger, we used to try and tell people we were twins....pity we were blonde and brunette and tall and short...

[LuluHB]

I don't like kids dressed the same either TBH but seriously, this is an issue why???? Silly woman.

My girls like very different things, and with their different colouring suit different colours, but every now and then they will both choose the same thing. If that's what makes them happy then I just accept it.

Just wondering though. Does that make us very, very cruel when not only do we dress our children the same as each other, but also the same as every other child in their school class???

[Sunny Love]

Gosh, you sound like the world's worst mother ever! NOT!!

That woman needs to remove her head from the dead bear's bum it's been stuck up, she is officially a Wednesday F-Wit!

[Rowellen]

Just wondering though. Does that make us very, very cruel when not only do we dress our children the same as each other, but also the same as every other child in their school class???

That is just the height of cruelty. Nothing could possibly be more cruel than that