I think talking through her feelings is a good idea - model it so she gets the idea. When you xxxx, I feel xxxxx. It really, really helps them to have language to express their frustrations. It takes a lot of work to get to that point, but it's worth it.
If you're out, then leaving is an excellent example of a 'natural consequence' of antisocial behaviour. It's not a punishment, it's simply what has to happen to keep everyone safe.