I wasnt sure what to post this and hope it doesnt sound too strange,it took me 10 years to convince my DH to have a family and now DD is 18 months Im ready to try again but not mainly for me but for her,i would like her to have a sibling quite close and I feel weve left it a bit long already but DH wants to wait another say 4 months then try,he doesnt seem to hear my complaints of how long it could take and then how long your pregnant for i just really dont want a big gap like 3 years is max gap id like but I know not starting till she is nearly 2 it could even be a 4 year gap but also im trying to be patient and keep in mind that nothing against my Dh but because of his work and things I do have to do most of the looking after our DD so I know when the next one comes it will be the same so then in some ways i wonder if maybe it is better for me also but i cant get out of my head how i really dont want a huge gap for DD she loves other kids and i feel if we dont have one soon by time shes say 4 she be getting ready for off to school anyway!So what i was hoping to get(after all that raving)if i could ask goods and bads like if youve had your children close has this been good and if not has that been good?pros and cons of each maybe sorry sounds so daft!Thanks1