LIKE! Thanks for posting.
and that is not what BB is about.
I kinda disagree with part of this. I would say BB should be about being supportive but in reality it is not. Harsh judgement is a very real part of the threads I read here (and mostly don't contribute to because judgement is not how I roll and I don't care to give it more air time than it has already had). It would be FANTASTIC if BB was supportive to all women but from my view of the world it is not.

Also, when thinking about being supportive, I think it is necessary to make the distinction between A) 'I support you because you have made the same choice as I have' (thus validating me and my choices) and B) 'I support you in what ever you do because you are a fellow woman trying to do the best you can just like I am, regardless of whether I would make the same choices'. I think BB has lots of the A kind of support, but when I say I think it should be about being supportive I guess I mean I think it should be more about the B type of support.