Thanks for posting this thread!!

I have warned my PIL and my family that they are not to give DD ANYTHING unless I have cleared it first. I know my parents will respect that but I have seen my MIL give my niece ice cream when she was 4 months old!!!

I think the idea of not making it a big deal is great!! Also I am going to exlpain to her that sometimes that food can make our tummies hurt and our bodies sad whereas veggies and fruit make our body happy.