thread: lack of 1 on 1 time and unsettled at bedtime

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  1. #1
    BellyBelly Life Subscriber

    Feb 2006
    melbourne
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    lack of 1 on 1 time and unsettled at bedtime

    so i was wondering if its possible that lack of one on one time for my DD2 (2)during the day can cause her to be unsettled at night/bedtime.
    i didnt spend much time playing with her today (my bad i know, i feel crap about it) as i was busy (no excuse i know) doing other stuff. she was terrible tonight..took an hour to go to sleep.
    so could it be this or am i clutching at straws??

  2. #2
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    Jan 2009
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    i definately see a difference in DS when he has less play with mummy and daddy time even tonite he was a pain

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    Sep 2007
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    Hun you know your a wonderful mummy and you do the best you can, its not always possible to do everything and sometimes the kids do miss out on a little time

    I think it can be related, delaying and misbehaving at bedtime is what DD does when she doesn't see Daddy OR If she is having a Daddy Day and I don't spend half the day with her.

    HTH x x x

  4. #4
    BellyBelly Member

    Nov 2004
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    hun kids are so resilant- it doesnt seem to matter here how much one on one time i have with DS2- he never goes down early !! LOL
    although DS2 wont go down till the older ones are asleep and until after he has done a poo lol
    sleep or lack of a sleep during the day only makes a slight difference either
    its just kids being kids!

  5. #5
    BellyBelly Life Subscriber

    Jan 2006
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    Yeah, maybe. But then sometimes these things are just random.

  6. #6
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    Feb 2006
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    could also be because DH wasnt home tonight and she was probably overtired from only a 35 min sleep today

  7. #7
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    Jan 2006
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    yep, that'd do it too