How awful for you all Some babies just hate the car - maybe some others will be able to give you some advice. It's hard, but sometimes you pretty much have to choose between crying baby and staying home.
For what it's worth, just being near her, holding her hand and stroking her hair will make a differenc e(though it might not sound like it). My DD gets very worked up sometimes and will scream herself to sleep - nothing helps so I just lie next to her so she's not alone.
thanks for your reply.
It was so hard to just sit there while she cried, goes against every instinct in my body.
I hope someone can help with this issue, otherwise Ill be living at the inlaws forever haha