Turtlescell - that's one of my big worries, that he'll end up not fitting in anywhere But like you said, he is only young and by the time he is at school I may decide to settle somewhere.

Divvy - I had thought about that but I haven't looked into any legalities yet. I doubt very much that my sons father will try to keep DS there. He is interested and wants to know him but I think he is far too immature and irresponsible to even think about being a proper parent and wanting him to stay. He did mention though getting dual citizenship for DS, but I think that will be very hard to get as he is not named on his birth certificate as his father so we really have no documented proof that he is of Tanzanian descent.