Everybody (parents, inlaws, boss, to name a few) have been asking DH and I lately whether we plan to have anymore children. And when DH and I say "maybe" we keep on getting the same old replies:

"Why on earth would you want another one, you've got your pigeon pair"

"Two is hard enough"

"Two is expensive enough"

The negativity is really starting to give me the poos.

Is going from 2 to 3 seriously THAT bad? Is it much harder to cope? Is it really that much more expensive?

Whinge over, but would love to hear your experiences/opinions.