thanks for all your replies
it does feel good just to talk about it.
crumpet- nice to know I'm not alone. i get so tired of doing housework, just to have it mucked up again. i think this contributes to the groundhog feeling.
olive- this year is sooo boring. I'm hoping things get better next year when he's in 4 yo kinder.
onyx- i do nothing for me. unless you count watching reality television? i don't have the energy for an affair. in fact, i think i would even find that boring! lol my dh is a total spunk anyway so i doubt id ever find anyone more attractive LOL
yeah maybe i need to look into a hobby....
peanutter- thank you for the suggestion but I've never been a great student LOL spent most of uni at the pub.