The hardest thing about this stance is other people. We don't really do Santa (DS was 3 in March) and hasn't really been old enough to get christmas but it was hard for me cause everywhere we went everyone would ask DS about Santa and what Santa was going to get him. It is awkward to say that he doesn't come to our house.

I am worred that DS won't think he is good cause Santa doesn't come (you know that line checking his list to see who is naughty and nice) I also want him to enjoy the magic of christmas. So while we don't celebrate Santa and Santa doesn't bring any pressies etc.... we emphasise that christmas is about family and giving etc.... and Santa is just that strange man in the red suit in the shopping centre or at the christmas concert.

Sorry if that wasn't very helpful