what am i doing wrong??My DD is an absolute nightmare!I dont know if its normal beahviour,shes been a full on kid since she was about 1 and now shes 2 and a half and out of control,ive known it for a while but since we had DS 8 weeks ago shes turned into(and i hate saying it)simply a horror,shes turned into a demanding yelling strange child!Now my sister in law is now saying she has early signs of ADHD and i jsut dont know what to do!We dont have any friends with a 2 year old so i dont know if its normal behaviour or not,she just keeps repeating herself in my face all day,saying the same things over and over demanding till she gets her own waay and just i dont know really alot of behaviour things that are strange i know but like for example she has sets routines and if we dont do them she has a melt down but to be honest she has one over absolutely everything these days if we say no,but yet shes really hypo all the time shes got like no attention span and cant sit still for a few seconds and she just goes on and on from 5 in the morning,i feel im losing control and im just at my wits end,is there really adhd in a child so young?I just want to cry every night because shes so awful and im getting resentful and like i cant even stand her near me(i love her but you know what i mean)and i feel for my poor DS because my attentions on her all day and if its not she goes crazy like yesterday she pulled out every item of clothing in her cupboard and threw over floor and while i was folding and putting away that she was into the bathroom with my shampoo and body wash all over the floor and herself and down the drain,shes into everything and really disruptive and destructive i just dont know where to go from here,i dont know whether to take her to a pead or try a book on better discipline or what to do but we need some sort of control back