so ive finally(after my last post)decided i will take the plunge and get DD in a big bed,its all ready to go,im just not sure which is the best way,ive heard mixed so im not sure if i should just take the cot out and be done with it and get her in the big bed and thats it or someone else said to just leave the cot in there and encourage her to sleep in the big bed for day sleeps,and ccot for night sleeps,problem is she then knows as we did try it and she just wont sleep unless she back in cot so im wondering if its best to just take the cot out and say its gone and go from there any advice?