OK so il cut to the chase. FIL was getting pee'd off at ds2 and got up and got a wodden stick and told him he would hit him with it if he didnt stop.

I think that he was way out of line. As an adult he shouldnt have done that. ds2 stays with us one week and with his dad the other and if his dad found out i can pretty much guarentee he too would be mad and use it to prevent ds from staying here.Which i wouldnt blame him for really. DH thinks im over reacting. I dont think i am. They could have sent him to his room, there was no need to get a wooden stick!!!

so...............am i over reacting