I guess, for me, MadB's last sentence pretty much sums it up. As parents, we make decisions (whether easy ones or hard ones) on a daily basis regarding our child(ren), and those decisions are nobody's business but our own. I may or may not agree, I may or may not choose the same for my kids as what someone else does, but I try not to judge or get worked up about what other families do, especially if the kids in question are fed, clothed, loved and looked after.