we often do separate plates for many things here, so bowl of pasta, bowl of sauce, bowl of cheese. DD can then mix and match herself. even when we know she won't have the sauce, it will go on her table.

sensory issues can be a sign of my neuro condition, (that my kids have potential to inherit) so it is something i watch out for. some signs can be just normal kid behaviour so i try not to over analyse unless we start to get more signs together. but good point to remember.