I honestly think that sometimes you have to be a little selfish itms. Its not selfish to think about your own health/physical needs and put them first because if you don't look after your needs, you can't be as good a Mum as what you could be kwim.

For me, it is a lot of different reasons why I don't want anymore children, a lot of them similar to yours and a lot of them very different as well. There comes a point in your life where you know that you want to enjoy life without having young kids to look after or go home to and that doesn't mean you didn't love the early years or appreciate your kids being little it just means that you are ready for the next phase of your life.