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  1. #1
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    Dec 2008
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    What do you think - is this inappropriate?

    Is it inappropriate (sp?) that Isaac (22 months) is allowed play with a box of condoms?

    He tips them out and puts them back in again, or spreads them around the bedroom depending on where he is on the destructometer that morning..

    No right or wrong answer I'm just having a slight disagreement with DF and would like to know what people think.

  2. #2
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    I wouldn't allow it. First concern would be if it ended up in a child's mouth.

  3. #3

    May 2008
    Melbourne, Vic
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    I don't think it's entirely appropriate - even the safety concerns aside, I'd just find it a bit off putting

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    DD's fave toy a couple weeks back was a box of tampons. Like your DS, she took em out, put em back, took them out, threw them around the bedroom, picked them all up again. So I would say as long as he is being supervised, and doesnt know what they are, then it's not entirely inappropriate.

  5. #5
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    Oct 2008
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    I'm with Manhattan. He doesn't know what he's looking at at this age, as long as he isn't chewing on them I'd be inclined to let him go. Moo went through a huge obsession with HPTs & OPKs late last year. Would just take them all out, then put them all back in the box, over & over...

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    DD's fave toy a couple weeks back was a box of tampons. Like your DS, she took em out, put em back, took them out, threw them around the bedroom, picked them all up again. So I would say as long as he is being supervised, and doesnt know what they are, then it's not entirely inappropriate.
    Yup, DS2 thinks that tampons make a great teether!!

  7. #7
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    Nov 2010
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    Yeah sorry, inappropriate for me too, I'd be scared of swallowing it but other than that it just seems wrong.

  8. #8
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    At that age I'd say he won't have a clue what he's playing with, so only really inappropriate to us because we know what they are and what they're for. But I'd still probably take them away and give him a toy instead. I'd be worried about the choking thing, and it's not necessarily something you want him to get attached to as a play thing!

  9. #9

    Jan 2011
    Townsville, QLD, Australia
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    I don't think its inappropriate because like Kaytee said, he has no idea what they are or what they're for, but I would be more concerned about safety - what if he puts one in his mouth, or manages to open one? I would stop him playing with them for those reasons more than whether or not it would be deemed appropriate.

  10. #10
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    good point about the choking thing - although he doesn't put stuff in his mouth anymore really, I hadn't thought of it.

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    Another thing I just thought of and it doesn't really have anything to do with DS......you don't want them getting holes in them!!!!!!

  12. #12
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    ... or do I???

  13. #13
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    No, I dont think so..

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    ... or do I???
    Well then I stand corrected!!!!

  15. #15

    May 2008
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    You also don't want him to go and get his new favourite toy and bring it out for visitors... Do you!??????

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    You also don't want him to go and get his new favourite toy and bring it out for visitors... Do you!??????
    LOL you just reminded me of Moo during his HPT obsession, screaming in Safeway because there was a box in the trolley that he wanted to get to! I gave in & he was waving them around the whole time we were in there

  17. #17
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    LOL you just reminded me of Moo during his HPT obsession, screaming in Safeway because there was a box in the trolley that he wanted to get to! I gave in & he was waving them around the whole time we were in there


    We live with MIL so I always make sure they are all safely packed away before we leave the bedroom... Door is always closed so that should be ok.

  18. #18

    May 2008
    Melbourne, Vic
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    LOL you just reminded me of Moo during his HPT obsession, screaming in Safeway because there was a box in the trolley that he wanted to get to! I gave in & he was waving them around the whole time we were in there