Im sorry I made you feel that way, it wasnt my intention. I was just suggesting some options. Could it be your DD is doing it for attention from you. I just noticed you have a 4 year old aswell as she may feel that she needs to act this way to get you to notice her, even if its in the wrong way. Please dont take that the wrong way.

I also think some foods (preservatives etc) set some kids off. Some kids can just very nasty when they have been given a certain additive.

Also, maybe its just because he was a red head? lol. I went to a 6 year olds birthday party on the weekend and gosh... there was this red head there and he was just out of control. lol. Please, nobody take offense to this. Im not saying YOUR red head is out of control.

Sometime its hard to say things on BB because it can be taken so many different ways and no one can hear the expression etc behind what your saying.