My dad was originally horrified that I was going to be a sahm, he expected me to go back to my prestigious job with a uni blah blah. He eventually changed his mind after dd was born, she was a premmie and had a lot of appointments etc and he was besotted with so he finally seems to understand.

I think a lot of people presume we spend all day shopping, doing glamourous things. We go swimming, we play I clean, and we do it all over again. Watching the girls grow us amazing but it's hard work, being back at work would be so much easier. For now I haven't even thought about what I will do it's at least five years away before I would think about working again.

None of my friends have kids and think I am lucky not to work. They dream of the day!! I try not to let peoples opinions bother me as we are a happy little family. It can be frustrating if people think it's the easy way out.