I don't have a problem with porn. Doesn't interest me so much & I didn't mind ex watching it. BUT I will be making it very clear that none of it is real & they're all pretending to enjoy what they're doing for money. Ex didn't seem to get that alot of that stuff just isn't reality for most people & that that is OK.
And none of the women actually look like that!

I don't think I'll be any different between the girls & the boy. The girls need to know they don't have to act like that & the boy needs to know that he can't expect that.

I really hope they aren't introduced to porn til they're in an established sexual relationship & they know what they will & won't accept & what reality is... but I know that I'm probably not living in reality there!