couldnt agree more....dont listen to other people telling what he should/shouldnt be doing! just do what you feel is right, if thats having him in a cot and on the bottle for a few more months then so be it....when people ask just tell them ''yes, hes doing great thanks'' and leave it at that, then you dont have to listen to them telling you your doing it all wrong. i swear if half my family/friends knew i was still Breastfeeding DD id get stick...but i just dont mention it unless they ask directly!! your doing great! A friends son sounds quite similar to yours, slept in his cot, wast TT, had a bottle, didnt talk hardly atall, and this was when he was almost 3...hes now 4 and you cant shut him up! and all the other stuff fell into place too. he now sleeps in a big bed and tells his mum when hes tired and trots off to bed on his own! so there is hope
saying that, im still having my own dramas....should take my own advice