So sorry your going through all of this.. I had a lot of problems with dd. One night I just got so upset I put my hand through the wall.. I watched the super nanny and read up on a few things. (she would start and stop all through the night and I was working full time)

I put her in her own room, I gave her a toy, I told her it was sleep time and mummy would be here for her.. I started sitting on the floor in front of her cot. Then I would slowly move further away from her cot... I gave her a cuddle after 2 mins - 5 mins & 7 mins. Some nights I would just lay on the floor holding her hand through the cot.

I bf dd for 9 months, it was hard cos she would kind of use me as a dummy.. I had to wen her onto a bottle.. I got one of those tommy real bottles.. A GOD SEND for me!! lol

Best of luck I hope things working out.. Best thing to do is read up and a few different ways and try a few things and remember.. Give yourself a few minutes time out when it gets too much...