most babies don't come with a routine.... they are little individual creatures and not something you can make function based on a clock. in all honesty my dd's days didn't start resembling anything like a routine until around 10months when her sleep started settling down.... there's nothing wrong with taking each day as it comes and following your baby's lead each day, in fact i would recommend it. in my personal experience of spending the first six months obsessing about getting my baby into a routine, they are absolute BULLS#%T!! i wasted a good deal of time trying to force her to be predictable, which i now realise was a completely unrealistic expectation... if your baby comes with some predictability then great, what a bonus, but if not (like most) i certainly wouldn't worry about it..... (now that i know better!!).... just enjoy the freedom of not having to watch a clock!!