You are both doing really well. Don't be fooled by those mums that can brag about all nighters - I reckon there is another 5 mums to every one of those - and those 5 have permanent matchsticks under their eyes

I too would try the bottle just before bed and drop the dreamfeed. It is scary at first and you anticipate them waking, but I remember with my DS1 (the only one I did dream feeds with) - I stopped it at 5 months and he just never woke up for it anyway. But I didnt sleep well the first few nights - and he then slept until 6am regularly without need ing me much over night, occasional dummy run etc.

Give it a go and see if it makes a difference. Solids at this age isnt really for a "meal" as such, so you could also try putting the solids somewhere else to make sure she takes the full bottle before bed?

Good luck