I looked at the TH routines and adapted them to fit our live (I found the "secrets of the baby whisperer" to be alot more helpful). I just downloaded the TH routines from the internet rather than buy the whole book.

"how can someone who has never had kids give advice" yeah I sort of agree but when you think about it, alot of educated people are capable of giving good advice without actually experiancing the problem. I am a qualified drug and alcohol counsellor but have never had a problem with it myself. Child psychologists often give very worthy advice but alot do not have children. I don't know what qualifications TH 'states' she has, but some of her ideas make perfect sense, even if we don't particularly like her theories or ways of doing things.