Why not make some mini cupcakes with her in the morning and then sit down for your very own high tea for lunch with little finger sandwiches (peanut butter and vegemite are oh so gormet!!) with the cupcakes for dessert and a hot choc with marshmallow on the side from her tea pot
You could do a very weak camomile tea and tiny jam and cream cheese sandwiches. You could invite Great-Grandma to tea as well so she can see for herself how much your DD in enjoying the gift.
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