I've got a male and 2 females.

The females love the human males in the house - don't really have much time for us human girls.

My male cat is awesome, he's my favourite. He's big and cuddly and more tolerant of the kids being rough (unless they touch his tail, he has a birth defect and its a bit jagged and stiff so I think it hurts when touched).

All have been fixed and its our female kitten that pees everywhere. Our male cat sometimes misses the litter box when pooping but I don't know any male that has great aim...