So we have a 11 year old cat and a almost 3 year old cavoodle.

They get along great, our dog can sit,stay,drop shake, etc and does know many words,our names ,biscuit walk car etc, you get my drift

Anywhos..Since DD was born our cat has been a bit funny but she is ok,our dod on the other hand is ok with DD but has started to wee everywhere,chew everything,including my very expensive reading glasses this morning sigh..

She gets a bit growly as well, she just is not her self anymore, we can see she is jealous,i mean she was the baby of the house untill DD came along

what can we do? We are fed up with her but feel sorry for her at the same time