Awwww yay! Kitties are the best!

We have a new little kitten... she is about 12ish weeks now, we got her when she was about 7 weeks. She was pretty much toilet trained when we got her, just from watching the other cats... she did need some reminding tho... we just kept an eye on her and popped her in her tray when she looked like she needed to go, and after she slept or ate. We keep her in our bathroom at night and when we are out for a long time, it's a big room and it's much easier to clean up accidents off tiles! But she is out most of the time now she's bigger. If you have problems with your kitty going elsewhere but the tray, wipe it with something citrusy after cleaning - lemon oil or something, that generally stops them from going there again. If that doesn't work, pop some dry food there - they won't 'go' near food.

Also - should be able to get a cat tray from the 2 dollar shop or somewhere, and I recommend the 'recycled newspaper' litter, it's a bit more expensive but it seriously is heaps absorbent and not very smelly! well worth the extra $$

RE: chewing stuff - TOYS toys toys - so she can attack them and not your hands LOL. One of our cats fave toys is just half an empty loo roll tied to a shoe lace.. she loves chasing it! Also Maybe a scratching post? We got one cheap - 5 dollars or something from a cheap shop Ours kitty is mostly into the curtains at the moment (sooooo annoying!) So just keeping her occupied with other stuff stops her from getting into the curtains... it is time consuming! lol warning - she also went through a phase of playing with her kitty litter EWWWWW but now the curtains are more interesting

Anyway, I am rambling, but I hope that helped

Have fun meeting your new little Kitty