I know when we looked in pet minding a while ago the morning/night feed was an additional charge. So it was normally one visit a day for $20 and if you wanted them morning and night it was $40. Expensive which is why we actually ended up with a house sitter ( which was completely free! And peace of mind of someone looking after your house!)

I would think the three trips morning feed/night feed/ Nd bed is too much to ask. Could she do the night feed a little later and bring him in a bit earlier? Or like you said leave him out? It isn't an option for us cuz our dogs park at ppl driving past and we are always worried it will annoy neighbours!

Also with regards to walking your dog I would probably also be waiting to see the little girl . Big size difference in 13 year olds and some might not be able to handle an energetic dog!