Wanting to get a new cat/kitten - is there any pros/cons for male v female?

[*LittleMissSummer*]

I find male cats (from my experience) to be much more affectionate and laid back where as females tend to be more aggressive and really skittish!

[EssTee]

I had male cats most of my life and when time came to getting another cat i went to the shelter and a beautiful female "picked" me.She was the best cat I've ever had...
not necessarily more or less affectionate than the males, but I think it was our connection that made her really special. I never had any issues with male cats spraying.
i'd say it doesnt matter so much apart from your own preference, but I'd choose a cat that would best fit in with your family and go with your gut.