we have a cat and a dog. Falkor the cat is a boy and he is about 6 now. We had him desexed when he was about 4 months old. He rocks!!!!! He acts like a dog and is really docile. We got him free when MIL cat had kittens.

I don't think sex makes a huge difference unless you don't desex them young. He never knew any difference. He is really codependant and loves his tummy rubbed (which most cats hate).

We are a little worried about him with the baby once it's born but after doing lots of reading and watching some interviews on TV from RSPCA and introducing pets to children we feel a bit better. We know that he can never go in the babies room and will have a spay bottle handy if he tries.