That is a bit scary, whats your last name and what skool did you go to RHYB? Might have to keep in touch until i get up there?

Thankyou Tali for your kind words and advice, I just miss him so much when he is gone and cant even call or txt him. I've been away from him for nearly a mth and a half now and it is very hard for me, but I can go up and see him but only once a month. He has been in the navy for 4 years now so I should be used to it but I'm not, it doesn't get easier. Even thinking about it makes me want to cry, I love him so much.

We want to start a family but don't know if it is better to wait (and get married first) as I would be scared (as I don't have kids) that I wouldn't be able to look after bubs properly by myself if I dont know anyone, this is why I am on this site because if I can build a network before I get to cairns then I would be able to get advice from mums that know it all. I know there are loads of books you can buy but you cant beat first hand experience.

Thanks so much girls