Yeah, she loves the excitement of the reaction. She will threaten to throw for a few minutes before she does most of the time. With the kids it gets them carrying on 'mum, mum' & jumping up freaking out. It's one thing to take it away & try keeping things settled if I'm right there, but I can't always be right there.

She gets 3 whole days of alone time with me. DS is at school 6 hours a day, 3 days a week & the girls 5 days a week. I know she's always competing for my attention, but I think that may be part of the problem. She's always had my attention. Even when I'm trying to do something with the others, she'll be on my hip, or doing it too. Unless she's completely distracted.

I'm trying to wean her & lessen the attachment, but with no outside help its near impossible. These bahaviours started long before I tried to change anything though.

She has a very similar personality to DD1 & DS. They both like to stir too, but she's very extreme compared to them & alot younger than they ever were.

I dunno. I think she's very smart. Even a little too smart. So time out might work. But, I can see her just replacing these things for something else. The way the drawing on the walls has been taken over by throwing things. It gets a better reaction & she knows it. She also knows that DD2 will give a loud over the top reaction & that she can walk all over her, while DD1 & DS will usually lash out & hurt back. She doesn't cower to DD2 at all. But doesn't stir the others any less, just reacts different to their reaction.

Oh this personality is going to be interesting as she grows...