He never hears you the first or second time, it's always 'What did you say?' at least 3 times before he seems to hear, or maybe it's understand or absorb what you've said, I'm not sure but it's infuriating at times especially juggling the very whingy/teary velcro baby.

If you want his food to be correct you must ask for step by step instructions and quadruple check before and you may be lucky and get it right

OMG this is Eden too!!! Especially about the food!!!!! I can ask her and she'll tell me that she wants a certain cereal for breakfast, start preparing it and she meltdowns because she wanted something else and accuses me of being stupid and not giving her what she wants - but I'm doing what I'm told!!! ARGHHHH Frustrates me to no end.

We've started putting dry cereal in a bowl and putting it on the table and making sure she is happy with it 100% before adding milk now LOL