I've thought of that Cat. I'm just not sure he'd go for it. Dd maybe, but not so sure about ds.

He's in my bed again now :/ but I did manage to start them both off in their own beds last night.

Dd2 was like this too, but she was scared of what was outside. Ds is scared of inside. And we sleep every night with the toilet light on just outside his room. Always have.

I will try though.

TFB ds is fine if with one of the bigger girls in the room. He's ok even with just dd3 in there, but she doesn't go to sleep alone yet either.