No, no changes here that I can think of in the last few months. He started 3 yo kindy a month ago, but the night trips started before then. I agree, he definitely needs reassurance, 24/7! Eg Yesterday he wouldn't even go by himself from the lounge to his bedroom to get a toy car. This is a daily occurrence....going from one side of the room to the other without someone going with him results in tears. After a lot of work, I can now go to the loo without him actually touching me - we have an arms length between us now, which is a huge improvement!
Nice to know I'm not alone too!
DH and I will work out a strategy over the weekend and hopefully will make some slow progress....we're thinking about no talking/interaction when we put him back to bed and a rewards system.
Redgum - thanks, will check out your journey.