Im already feeling empathy for the childcare for when my dd2 attends childcare because she is very highly allergic to diary eggs peanuts so i am not sure how they will cater for her as they provide food.

Dd1 is allergic to egg but not anaphylactic and she knows not to eat eggs and her kindy has a strictly no sharing food policy.

Sorry no advice.

I guess i would be annoyed too but if my child is anaphylactic to any of those food i would be really worried so maybe someone in your childs kindy is?