Do you, DH and DD get some time together?

We found that DD1's behaviour was going down the toilet earlier this year, so we decided on movie night. We endeavour to put DD2 to bed, then we pick a movie she hasn't seen, get a bag of potato chips and curl up. It's past her bedtime but she can stay up, her little sister is in bed and it's just special time with us where she feels a bit grown up.

She only gets it if she has good behaviour (mostly!), throughout the week. It works really well as both a reason for her to try and do the tasks we set (like making her bed, putting placemats on the table) and just because she absolutely loves it. I told MummyNaomi about it and I know they are doing it with DS too - hopefully she pops in with how it's going.