Hi,

My second son just will not toilet train. He's generally a stubborn kid and this is no different! He is on Lactulose as he would hold his poo and become constipated but that issue seems to have subsided since we took the 'pressure' off to go on the toilet. We just ask casually now if he'd like to go to the toilet from time to time. We've been doing that for months. On occasion he will go do a wee using the toilet but it's probably only 2-3 times a week.

He just doesn't care about the whole 'big boy' thing or having a dirty nappy or bribery or praise. I'm much more of a 'wait until he's ready' type but it's getting a little worrisome as he'll be in kindy next year.

Has anyone got anything that worked for a stubborn toilet trainer?

P.S. Using a potty or toilet makes no difference.