Thanks Beansbeans
We had a small triumph tonight. I made couscous with chicken, pumpkin, mushroom and capsicum and although i knew she wouldn't touch it, I gave her a tiny bowl. But I had mashed vege on standby. Well she absolutely cracked it! Throwing her arms around and screaming. We ignored her and I just put the bowl of mashed vege on her table and sat in the lounge to eat my dinner. After about 30 minutes of her tantrum she sat at her table and started to eat her vegies! Even though the screaming is so hard to ignore, it was well worth it. Hopefully she will get the hint that tantrums don't work!