Hi sweetheart, and congrats on your pregnancy.

I am sorry you are having to put up with people telling you not to worry and telling you not to tell them! People can have strange reactions sometimes. Just know that we are all here for you and we understand what you are going through. There is no way you can not stress at a time like this, and you need the support of your family and friends. If they are not going to give that to you, come here and we will help.

Have you had any counselling? I just had my first session with a counsellor on the w/e after my second loss. I will be going regularly and she will be teaching me ways of dealing with the stress and worry, and is trying to make me realise that each pg is different and its own thing and has nothing to do with any other pregnancies. I know it is hard to think like that, but it may be worthwhile seeing someone who can help. There are definitely public counsellors you should be able to see through the hospital for free. Sorry, you may have already done this, I just thought I would suggest it in case you haven't.

And there is nothing wrong with going public - public hospitals are usually fantastic and I am sure you will receive the best of care.

I am thinking of you and hoping that all works out for you